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[TheGrimReaper]

My crush, who usually ignores, just sent me a message on Facebook and asked me "wassup" Then he asked me "What you been doing" I said not much and he said "O, you like me?"

Wondering if he likes me back, if not, I'm still crying tears of joy right now.
You don't understand how much this means to me.  

Now he just asked me "You eva had sex"  

Oh and then I asked him if he ever did and he said "Yeah but u wouldn't"  

Edited by TheGrimReaper, 31 January 2012 - 10:49 PM.

[TheGrimReaper]

Eeeeeeeeeeeeeeeekkkkkkkk!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Now he said "Now that's wuts up when I get back in town u wan 2"
I just told him yeah, as long as we can get to know eachother a little more.
Should I? Or would that be a big mistake?

[All Dead]

You're definitely not mentally prepared for that.

[TheGrimReaper]

All Dead, on 31 January 2012 - 11:27 PM, said:

You're definitely not mentally prepared for that.

What exactly do you mean by that? And how do you know?  

[All Dead]

I can tell by your posts. The very fact that you're deciding this because of some awkward casual conversation on Facebook is proof of this. Clearly this dude (who is probably younger) is trying take advantage of your naivete and low self-esteem.

[TheGrimReaper]

Actually, I don't think he knows that I have low self-esteem. Or that I can be naive at times.


Anyway, totally said he'd be home Thursday and we could chill in the abandoned house and talk.
That's perfect cause my parents wouldn't want me going to an abandoned house, but my best friend lives right next door so I'll just tell my mom I'm going to see her (might actually go to see her for a few anyway)

What I've decided is that me and him are gonna chill and talk for awhile, get to know each other a little better like he agreed on, then I'll see how things go from there.  

[Stab The Judge]

ok, nevermind. that was way too creepy.

[TheGrimReaper]

One thing though, he just asked me if I'd do his "bra" too. I said no, I'd find kind of awkward, especially it being my first time. I think I know who he's talking about too, I know his one brother (he's kind of cute too, lol, heard back awhile ago he had a crush on me, thought it wasn't true at the time, but it probably was)

You know what? I think I'm just gonna straight up ask him if all he wants is sex, though he probably wouldn't answer truthfully anyway, unless he says, I'm sure that would be true. Lol. But I hope not though. I really like him and I hope this is more than just him wanting to have sex with me. I'm nervous to say it though (and to "do it" with him if I do)
My parents would practically KILL me if they found out.  

Edited by TheGrimReaper, 01 February 2012 - 12:14 AM.

[All Dead]

Um...Wow.

So, you're telling me this kid wants to run train on you with his brother in an abandoned house, and nothing about this is raising any flags?

Jesus Christ. No one should even have to explain this shit.

[conker]

this is a joke, right?

[Raphaela]

Jesus anti-war, it's obvious he's trying to just fuck you and leave. No guy that considers having anything more than sex with you would ask if you'd do his brother.
He probably hasn't had sex in a while and wants to take advantage of the fact a girl wants him.
Seriously, I consider losing one's virginity (spcially a girl's virginity)something important, and that's going to define a part of your life.
And having sex in abandoned buildings is not really that great, there are a lot of complications (trust me, I know).
It's your body, but I'd say wait a little more, until you find someone that really is worthy of your virginity.
I'm just surprised at how bold and stupid your crush is. When a guy wants to fuck a girl, he at least tries to say good thing to her, be nice and play the good guy.

[Skaz]

I agree with everyone else, he clearly just wants to use you for sex. Weren't you considering that you might be asexual a while ago? Kinda one extreme to the other here.

TheGrimReaper, on 01 February 2012 - 12:10 AM, said:

One thing though, he just asked me if I'd do his "bra" too.

This confused me, at first I thought he was a cross dresser!

[Gibby]

Skaz, on 01 February 2012 - 10:56 AM, said:

This confused me, at first I thought he was a cross dresser!

[EatShitAndCry]

Jesus Christ.

[All Dead]

conker, on 01 February 2012 - 03:58 AM, said:

this is a joke, right?

Sometimes I think anti-war could be just an incredibly elaborate troll, but I don't know how anyone can be that committed to an act when they're hardly getting anything out of it.

I really wish it was a joke.

[James]

Are you sure this guy isn't 40? Nobody other than oblivious adults type like that.

[TheGrimReaper]

No, I know him in person James. He lives right down the street from me. His name's Nick and he just turned 16 a couple months ago. And I think his brothers are 15 and 16, not exactly sure. Their names are David and Edward. David and Edward are full brothers. And I know Nick is only, like, a half brother, cause he's all white, and the other 2 are mixed.

So yeah, I know he isn't just a creepy 40 year old man.

He's one of them "gangsta" types, or whatever they call them, so that's why he talks like that I guess.

Anyway, while we're on the sex topic, and about it being my first time, how old were all of you when you had your first time? And did you regret it?

I kind of want to do it, but I just don't want it to be something I really regret in the future. They as long as he wears a condom, or we only do oral, there's not too much to regret. I just don't wanna get pregnant.


Oh, and I tricked in to telling me what should hopefully be the truth. See, I straight out asked him if all he wanted was sex, or a relationship, but the way I tricked him was by telling him, if he doesn't want a relationship, I'd still have sex with him (because obviously, if he thought he wasn't getting sex, he'd lie, but if he thinks he's getting sex no matter what, he should tell the truth) And he said he wanted both sex and a relationship. I hope that's right, because that's I want to. I want the relationship more than the sex though, and I hope that's how he feels too.
I really hope this works out how I want it to, and we are together for a long time. I've been crushing on him ever since I first laid eyes on him.

Thing is, he does have a bit of a bad rep, but nothing much I guess, he went to jail once or twice for driving under age and speeding, leading the cops on a chase. Edward got arrested with him too. And I've seen David (13 or 14 part of the time I'd seen it happen) driving his mom's car around, don't think he's ever been arrested for it though, but I do know he was arrested for getting in a fight with some kid, but he wasn't in too long, got put on house arrest, though he left the house with the thing still on, so apparently he could go at least a mile or two away, not sure. Plus one time he got in trouble for trying to rob and Ice Cream Truck with a stick (yes, you read it right, a stick, the guy freaked out and let him take what he wanted, lol) when he was younger.

[conker]

let me speak out for everyone:

WHAT THE ...?

[TheGrimReaper]

You guys act like I'm crazy for doing this. Haven't any of you ever had sex with someone you barely knew, maybe even spontaneously, which is worse? At least we've planned it.

[EatShitAndCry]

No.