Replying to Kristy, Are You Doing Okay?

Aidyn, on 20 March 2012 - 12:53 AM, said:

same here.

anti-war, i can't really give you any good advice. i haven't been here for a while, i don't know your life and mine has been completely different in most aspects. however, you should always remember that you're an awesome person - you are kind, polite and willing to help others. never forget your qualities. i had problems with my self-esteem for a long time. i tried to fit in with everyone else, be like every one else, get a boyfriend, etc. it needed some time until i realized that i did not really want to be lik...

All Dead, on 28 March 2012 - 09:19 PM, said:

This.

Deep down, I think you know no good can come of this. Everyone finds themselves in this situation at some point, where you try fooling yourself into believing he could be different. Just be careful.

Didn't he just up and stop talking to you for a month? And doesn't he supposedly have a girlfriend?

You let him take advantage of you the first time, so now he thinks he can do it again. Are you really gonna let yourself be a doormat?

No, I really do. I've had a crush on him for about a year now. I just wanna try one last time and see how things go. If it doesn't work out, well, I'll just have to get over it, and find another someday, if that's possible for me.

I don't even believe for a second you actually like him, he is just the only option so you have convinced yourself to like him.
After what he did, why would you even be interested?
Be smart, don't fall into it again.

Kristy, you're over-analyzing this. Sometimes you just have to call a spade a spade and move the fuck on.

Raphaela, on 27 March 2012 - 07:42 PM, said:

Thanks for not saying what I expected you to say. I expected you would say I was a complete idiot for doing this y...

I've been through the same as you with my ex. He was around Nick's age (or maybe one year younger, I don't remember) and made me wonder all these things. I gave him as many chances as he wanted, and he stepped on me every single time. I could only break free when he vanished from my life for a year.
All I can say is be a little careful, don't get too involved or put your hopes up high. I was going to tell you to kick him in the balls, but I guess we've all been there and know how hard this may be.

Okay, so I know I'm REALLY stupid for this and I know I'll probably regret VERY soon, but I was talking to Nick again. He says Angela was lying to me and he really does like me. So here's the hard part, finding out if I should believe him or her, because obviously one was lying to me.
Thinking about, I don't see why he'd be lying to me. Because, yeah, I could have seen him lying to me before to pull a sick prank on me, but now I don't see that as being logical, because he still is talking to me.
Even after Angela told me that. So why would he be talking to me if it was all just a joke? Why would he keep it up this long if he never actually liked me. Why would he have me around some of his friends and family if he doesn't actually like me? Cause I would think it was all just a joke he wouldn't want many people to know because he wouldn't people think he was with some ugly girl like me.
And he acts like he does like me.
And I...

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