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[soybot]

When I get high I giggle for ten minutes and fall asleep

[Sammysaint]

Does anyone else feel they look better naked than clothed?
I mean, when i'm naked i'm like fuck yeah I look rad and feel confident and great, but when i'm clothed I feel self-conscious and that I need to lose weight.

Weird? or is anyone else the same

[Floyd]

I feel self-conscious and awkward [AND THE FEELING STAYS WITH YOU ALL DAY!] even just taking my shirt off around other people, I don't really even like to wear shorts that much. At PIXFest I did my best to keep other people from seeing me in my underwear when I went to bed.

When I am alone, I could stay naked all the time.

[EatShitAndCry]

Clothed I don't care, nude I'm super self-conscious.

[Sammysaint]

That sucks, I spend more time naked than clothed so maybe that's why, I dunno.

[EatShitAndCry]

Yeah also I haven't been naked in front of anyone else in idk how long. Years, probably.

[Sammysaint]

If you mean sexually, then i don't think that's related to why I feel so comfortable nude. I mean, I was happy naked waaaaaaaaaay before i'd ever got naked in front of anyone haha. I was raised in a nude household in a way haha, we never saw clothes as a thing.
I wear clothes in the day of course but as soon as I get in, they're off.

[Black Cat]

Well, that surely explains, why you don't feel comfortable in clothes! I have a probably stupid question, though. Aren't you freezing? Or do you have the heating on like crazy all the time? I maybe could get comfortable with the idea of being nude in my flat more often, but I think would be to stingy to waste all this money on heating.

Regarding being naked around other people, I have come to terms with being naked in my spa/sauna place without feeling uncomfortable, but it took me some while. It's not so much that I feel self-conscious about my body, but I feel vulnerable without my clothes. Opening up to people, both emotionally and physically isn't something that comes easily to me, I'm simply a little bit shy about it. But I don't see this as a problem actually. I used to think, that this is something I needed to change and that I was repressed or whatever, but after going through a lot of progress regarding this, some of that shyness just stayed. And I like how this way I can really enjoy sexual intimacy with someone I feel close to as something special. It's just the best thing to realize that you are vulnerable but you can feel completely safe with someone, so much that you even can come out of your shell of clothing. I'm not saying, this is the only way to enjoy sex as something special and everyone should be like that, it's just one aspect of me I really like.

[All Dead]

I like to wear nothing but a smile when suffering from a major case of the swamp-ass, but that's about it.

[Raphaela]

I hate myself naked. I'm fat and full of impefections that make me feel bad even when I take a bath. Taking off my clothes to have sex demands a lot of effort to feel comfortable, but in the end it's worth it hahaha.

In other news, the guy I'm seeing on the 20th will probably ask me to date him but I can't because he lives far away. Not sure if I can stand long-distance relationships.

[All Dead]

Raphaela, on 15 July 2012 - 04:06 PM, said:

In other news, the guy I'm seeing on the 20th will probably ask me to date him but I can't because he lives far away. Not sure if I can stand long-distance relationships.

Honestly, long-distance relationships aren't very hard if you can actually trust the other person. If you're sick of just hooking up with people, maybe you should at least give it a shot.

[Raphaela]

All Dead, on 15 July 2012 - 05:52 PM, said:

Honestly, long-distance relationships aren't very hard if you can actually trust the other person. If you're sick of just hooking up with people, maybe you should at least give it a shot.

I guess my biggest problem is that I don't know if I can stay for 2 or more months without any sort of physical contact such as kissing, sex, etc. Not that I'm a nympho, but it's something I need to keep me sane, it doesn't matter if it's with the same person, but I feel I need to have that in my life.
If only he lived closer :(

[Floyd]

so one of my favorite TV shows, Eureka, just had it's series finale and I started crying, not because it was sad, in fact everything worked out great for everyone, but because it's over and this has been one of my favorite shows for the last six years. it has been a constant thing during some of the most important years of my life and now that its over I feel like there is a part of me is missing. I am going to miss hanging out with fargo and deputy andy and sheriff carter and zane and henry and jo and holley and SARAH and everyone else every week. it's like some old friends have left or something.

the last episode aired tonight, just two days short of six years after the first episode aired. the first episode began with carter and zoe driving into town in the rain, the last one ended with the two of them driving out of town in the rain.

[Raphaela]

That sucks, Floyd! But I know that feeling, a lot ;(

[AYP]

I'm starting to hate my job.

[Stab The Judge]

the one thing i wanted to do on my only day off this week was to sleep in and i still wake up at 6. fuck.

[Raphaela]

Is it wrong to be actually scared of the romantic weekend I'm having on friday?

[conker]

got an interview for an  internship next tuesday. the chances are very low...but maybe i am lucky this time:)

[Floyd]

this just came up on the facebooks:

awwwwwwww now I feel sad. I have no friends to suggest, he is already friends with everyone here!

[EatShitAndCry]

This is no longer the Summer of Yolo. This is the summer where all of our hopes and dreams got crushed and we had to pick ourselves up off the pavement. So much worse than Summer of Yolo, so much more beautiful.