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[All Dead]

Jesus Christ...

EatShitAndCry, on 08 March 2012 - 03:11 PM, said:

Honestly, anti-war, I think you'd be better off as a hobo with an addiction to smack than you are staying in that house.

No. Just no. Not funny, not cool, not helpful. Just. No.

[All Dead]

Seriously, do you realize how fucked up that is? That's like saying "you might as well be dead".

For fuck's sake.

[TheGrimReaper]

Going off that topic now since I really don't have much to say about it right now.

I think I'm going to try and go on a talking strike for 3 days. I decided to do that, cause I was talking to my mom and she said something about me talking too much and I was talking about how PRG went on a hunger strike and also how my one online friend says he goes 2 or 3 days without eating sometimes just cause he feels like it, so I was saying how I couldn't go that long without eating unless I was really sick maybe. So she said "You couldn't even go without talking for 3 days, let alone not eating food for 3 days." So I think I'm going to try and prove her wrong. I'm not even going to tell her, lol, she can figure it out on her own when I don't reply to her or anyone else. And if I really need to say something, I will just write it down on paper, I know a little sign language too but that wouldn't help cause they don't know it.

It's going to be tough though, I never go a day or more without talking. I mean, I've tried, cause I'll get mad at someone and say I'm not talking to you anymore, then about an hour (or less) later, I'm talking to them again. Sometimes I just forget, or sometimes I think of something I really want to say, and I tell myself "You can't say it, you said you weren't talking no more, prove yourself by really doing, at least for a whole day." But then I just can't take it, and I blurt out what it is I wanted to say.

So, wish me luck on this talking strike, lol. Cause I just don't see me making it. But it might be kind of fun to either be writing down what I want to say or acting it out, instead of talking. But for 3 WHOLE DAYS, I don't know, kind of tough for me.


Anyway, I'll update later tonight, to tell you if if I failed already or not. Note: I'll probably fail in, like, 10 minutes already. I know myself just a little too well. :P

Oh, and, glad I have the internet, so I can at least type to people on here. Not as bad as would be without the internet. Haha.

Edited by TheGrimReaper, 08 March 2012 - 06:15 PM.

[EatShitAndCry]

All Dead, on 08 March 2012 - 03:27 PM, said:

No. Just no. Not funny, not cool, not helpful. Just. No.

Yeah that was pretty fucked up, my bad.

[neddie]

TheGrimReaper, on 07 March 2012 - 11:31 PM, said:

But the problem is, I have nowhere to go, or no way to get anywhere. I have no older friends and I can't drive.

Do you have any relatives who could take you to stay with them for a while?
Even for couple of weeks?
That would get you away from home and give you some time to think what to do and how.

Other thing you could do is to talk to a youth worker. They should be able to at least give you some advice :)

And you probably have told why you're not aloud to get a job, but i've missed that. Is there really any good reason?


Oh and hi! I've been posting here a wee bit about  year and a half ago. Just been busy with other things now...

[TheGrimReaper]

neddie, on 09 March 2012 - 03:40 PM, said:

Do you have any relatives who could take you to stay with them for a while?
Even for couple of weeks?
That would get you away from home and give you some time to think what to do and how.

Other thing you could do is to talk to a youth worker. They should be able to at least give you some advice :)

And you probably have told why you're not aloud to get a job, but i've missed that. Is there really any good reason?


Oh and hi! I've been posting here a wee bit about  year and a half ago. Just been busy with other things now...

No, I don't really have any relatives that could take me in for a bit.

And the main reason why I'm told I can't get a job is because they want my (almost 20 year old and still jobless and no license) brother to go out and get a license and get a job, and I will have to take over babysitting my niece (for who knows how long? Cause my sister doesn't have anyone else) So basically they want him to go out and get a job, and me to be stuck babysitting for 40 bucks a week for the rest of my life, and I'm not even allowed to get a license either.
Also, my parents say I'm not responsible enough to get a job and that I'm too lazy.

[Gibby]

TheGrimReaper, on 09 March 2012 - 04:51 PM, said:

And the main reason why I'm told I can't get a job is because they want my (almost 20 year old and still jobless and no license) brother to go out and get a license and get a job, and I will have to take over babysitting my niece (for who knows how long? Cause my sister doesn't have anyone else) So basically they want him to go out and get a job, and me to be stuck babysitting for 40 bucks a week for the rest of my life, and I'm not even allowed to get a license either.
Also, my parents say I'm not responsible enough to get a job and that I'm too lazy.

I thought your parents didn't work? Surely they could watch your niece while you maybe try to get a part time job? I would have thought that getting a job would be a way of proving that you're not as irresponsible and lazy as your brother? You don't come across as particularly lazy.

[TheGrimReaper]

Gibby, on 10 March 2012 - 05:24 AM, said:

I thought your parents didn't work? Surely they could watch your niece while you maybe try to get a part time job? I would have thought that getting a job would be a way of proving that you're not as irresponsible and lazy as your brother? You don't come across as particularly lazy.

That's what I was thinking, me getting a job would prove I'm not that lazy. But they don't think that.
And my mom says she wouldn't be able to handle watching my niece because of her knee, cause she wouldn't able to run around and play with her, and chase her around the house, get her everything she needs, etc.
And my Dad wouldn't be able to do it cause he sleeps too much and he wouldn't be able to go without his tons of naps a day (mostly caused by all the pills he has to take, and his health problems, but also his old age)

[James]

Your family is obviously taking advantage of you. Your parents are manipulative.

[Floyd]

Am I the only one who thinks that this niece's parents should be the one taking care of her? Or maybe putting her in a reputable pubic day care facility so she does not end up as fucked as TGR?

[EatShitAndCry]

If you haven't, you should really check out this documentary about Howard Zinn, it's pretty inspiring:

[Raphaela]

Anti-war, why don't you confront with your parents more with your actions than with words?
Get out of the house one day, go after a part time job and work. Just do it, get out of the house and work...if they ask, tell them the truth, if they get pissed, walk away to your job as if they're not talking.

[EatShitAndCry]

Raphaela, on 10 March 2012 - 04:41 PM, said:

Anti-war, why don't you confront with your parents more with your actions than with words?
Get out of the house one day, go after a part time job and work. Just do it, get out of the house and work...if they ask, tell them the truth, if they get pissed, walk away to your job as if they're not talking.

Her father beats her. I am not sure that encouraging her to upset them is responsible.

[TheGrimReaper]

Floyd, on 10 March 2012 - 04:02 PM, said:

Am I the only one who thinks that this niece's parents should be the one taking care of her? Or maybe putting her in a reputable pubic day care facility so she does not end up as fucked as TGR?

I could make a joke about how you "pubic" instead of public, but I won't. Lol.
Anyway, her mother can't afford daycare anymore (she used to go though) and let's just say, she doesn't have a father.

[TheGrimReaper]

Raphaela, on 10 March 2012 - 04:41 PM, said:

Anti-war, why don't you confront with your parents more with your actions than with words?
Get out of the house one day, go after a part time job and work. Just do it, get out of the house and work...if they ask, tell them the truth, if they get pissed, walk away to your job as if they're not talking.

I have no transportation to a job. I wouldn't feel very safe walking to a job when I live in one of the most violent cities in America (which used to be known as Bomb City, USA and that's just one of our nicknames).

[Raphaela]

I suppose you can always get the bus?
I live in one of the most violent cities on the state of são paulo. The crime rates are bigger than two major cities (one of them is three times our population) together. 3 blocks from my house is what they call 'the gaza strip'. Not to mention all the rapes and robbery that happen near my university.
Seriously, a part time job at the morning or afternoon could save you (I wouldn't say work at night because I understand it can be hell more dangerous, anywhere). If your father won't beat you up, you can maybe keep saving money and leave your house in a year or maybe less.
Just try, you know, go to a place where they get jobs for young people and at first just talk with the person there. Think a lot about it, research buses that go there and stop near your place, and get going. It's not easy, I know it, but at least give it a shot.

[Floyd]

TheGrimReaper, on 10 March 2012 - 10:00 PM, said:

I could make a joke about how you "pubic" instead of public, but I won't. Lol.

haha you should have, I didn't even notice that. Poop and penis jokes are a great way to make friends!

[EatShitAndCry]

Pubic Day is my favorite band.

[TheGrimReaper]

So I just got a message on FB about an hour ago from Nick asking "Wassup?" Seriously? Do you not know that I found out you don't actually like me? Or do you really think I'm that stupid to know you only wanted me cause you were bored and now you're bored again and I'm gonna to chill out with you? Men are idiots.
And I know it wasn't that Angela was lying to me, because it's been a few weeks since I've talked to Nick, so if it really was a lie and actually did like me he would have kept talking to me. Probably got nothing better to do because it's a boring, rainy day and his bros and friends probably ain't around. Infact, I don't know if he got arrested or not, but I saw the cops chasing down his bro Edward yesterday, I think he was in trouble for riding a dirt bike in the street. So he probably don't have him to hang with.

[All Dead]

TheGrimReaper, on 12 March 2012 - 03:08 PM, said:

Men are idiots.

You're not dealing with a man, you're dealing with a fucking child. If you haven't already, tell him to fuck off and block his ass. Or whatever it is you do on Facebook to prevent people from talking to you.

Oh, and send him this: